I have been dating a man for about two months. Things started slow and casual with easy dinners, nothing being splurged on, and a lot of talking. We didn't even have a first kiss until after the first few dates. I've gotten to know him better, met one of his kids (who he only has a portion of the time) and was even invited to have dinner at home with him and said child a couple of weeks ago. I'm not expecting to be his everything at this point (especially when children are in the picture) but I do have an expectation...or three. I want more.
But dates are never implied, there is little physical expression unless I initiate it, and he rarely verbally expresses his feelings towards me as well, though when he actually does these things it's lovely.
He sent me a text last night, letting me know he got home from being out with his friend, asking me how my night was, and then didn't respond to my text. I waited all day today - NOTHING. So I, in spite of my telling myself I wasn't going to be the one to blink first, sent a text saying. "You text and then disappear. I know you were busy today, but it would have been nice to have heard from you, especially since you dropped off." His excuse was that he passed out last night. I know there was time in the day today for him to have sent a quick note. This is a sign that: he's just not that into me.
Boring.
Saturday, January 22, 2011
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